I started a blog earlier this year on the advice that writing about what you feel strongly about helps focus the mind and gives order to your priorities. Additionally, having something positive to contribute remains a worthwhile endeavor. After the first 4 or 5 posts, I found myself having trouble coming up with the next topic. It seemed that I could not find a subject that kindled my interest sufficiently to write about. Moreover, I was fighting a daily battle (unsuccessfully) to avoid the overload of news / opinions / editorials and general “we’re going to hell in a hand-basket” prognostications gushing non-stop from the media.
It got to the point that I found myself feeling much like Hall of Fame football coach Vince Lombardi, captured in an NFL Films video clip, standing on the sidelines of a game, in angry bewilderment shouting, “what the hell’s going on out here!”
I proceeded to draft several posts (Rants actually) on the sad state of affairs in Washington DC, in American politics and America in general. But ultimately I could not bring myself to post any of them for several reasons.
First, my intent for this blog is to publish positive information with the hope that it can assist others in their pursuing a better path. Coupled with the faith that there is strength in numbers as we seek to improve together (might as well aim high right?). Complaining doesn’t do that. Second, despite its many problems this is my Country, and despite those problems America remains a beacon of freedom and opportunity for the world. Lastly, it is the country my youngest son will soon be fighting for.
So my dilemma became how to deal with the outrage and dissatisfaction, in a constructive way. I do not plan to run for office, nor organize protest or counter-protest marches. So the answer for me, at least, is to focus on the things I can control as I strive to make my small slice of the universe better. And when necessary, write to my Congressman or Senator.
The non-stop barrage of disappointing news and commentary is difficult to avoid, and even more difficult to rise above. When taken together, perhaps they are signs of the decline of western civilization, or of the coming apocalypse. Maybe it is just a blip on the pages of history. Or perhaps it is a test.
At times all of us are confronted with doubt, times when the odds seem overwhelming, times when you ask yourself if it’s worth it.
When the outcome is certain it’s easy to follow through, when you see the finish line just up ahead it’s easy to keep going. But staying the course when there’s reason to doubt takes grit, it takes courage, and that is what I want to pursue.
Living honorably rests squarely on a foundation of justice and the universal human truths (Karma, if you like), it does not however, follow a timetable. Therefore, an element of faith is part and parcel of doing the right thing. And on that often difficult path, you will find your strength and freedom.
The goals of Honorable Living are as timeless as they are purposeful.
For me this means; Train hard, be positive, be grateful, live with courage, meet your commitments, serve.
Though I know there will be days I channel my inner Vince Lombardi